@nickimarie213 are you crazy? how can you say that Stefan doesnt love Elena. Yes, Elena has brought him back to his humanity, but Stefan turing off his isn't her fault. She loves Stefan, and as @vampirelover16 said, in 'Smells like Teen Spirt' the look on their faces clearly showed that they still care for each other, mind you that he has flipped the switch to his humanity. And I didnt even understand what you said in the second message, but if you are reffering to season 1 (episode 9-10) where he tells her he has to leave and then comes back, well if you didnt understand I'll explain it: He was going to leave because it wasn't safe for her to be with him. He wanted her to be away from all the danger. But then he realised that he (and Damon) could protect her. So because he loved her so much, (as did she) he stayed. And btw, if it wasnt for Stefan, Damon would be dead.