Originally from Carson, California, Kai is a 28-year-old supervisor who has a daughter and is very determined to give her a better life. While his friends might describe himself as a player, he says he plans to settle down soon supposing he finds the right person. Among his hobbies include spending time outdoors, playing sports, but most importantly spending time with his little girl. Kai is one of the 20 younger guys in the dating reality show The Cougar, who competes for the affection of 40-year-old Stacey, a successful real estate agent and a divorced mother of four. He says he likes dating cougars because they are mature, intelligent, and experienced.