If you've ever watched a dating reality show, especially the high profile, marriage-goal-oriented ones--think multiple singles competing for the love of one seemingly perfect mate, like Joe Millionaire, Farmer Wants a Wife, and (of course) The Bachelor/The Bachelorette--the phrase has likely become a familiar, though still ambiguous, part of your vocabulary: "(s)he's not there for the right reasons." It's the all-encompassing term for any specious behavior on behalf of a contestant who appears to harbor ulterior motives, however slight, other than falling head-over-heels, puppies-and-picket-fences, babies-and-bathtowels in love with the star of the show.  

And if the phrase gets spoken aloud about you--if another contestant accuses you of not "being there for the right reasons," especially to the person whose love for which you're competing... have your bags packed, buddy, because it's also the kiss of death for the next elimination ceremony, or at least soon after.

Lisa stirred up a lot of trouble during her few episodes on the CW's Farmer Wants a Wife.  After becoming friends with eventual winner Brooke, Lisa was part of the epic toilet papering scandal of '08, and also annoyed farmer Matt Neustadt by randomly showing up at his home late one night.   After being labeled fake and hypocritical by some of the other contestants, Lisa was eventually eliminated for failing to adapt to country life.

Lisa may not have found love on the reality show, but she did attempt to use the exposure to further her career.  The Los Angeles native recently released a music video on her official website, which you can see below.  Check it out and decide for yourself if Lisa has a shot at stardom.

Matt Neustadt has been busy with charity-related appearances now that he has already found love in Brooke Ward on The CW's Farmer Wants a Wife. Two weeks ago, he and girlfriend Brooke participated at the Big Kahuna Celebrity Bartender Challenge, which was held at Side Pockets in St. Charles.  Most recently, however, he was featured in yet another charity event that is most close to his heart.

On Saturday, the Farmer Wants a Wife star posed for pictures and signed autographs as part of St. Charles' The Concert for Flood Relief, a free public event featuring various musical groups and entertainment exhibits held at Frontier Park along the Missouri River.

Matt Neustadt, a 29-year-old farmer West Alton, Missouri, appeared on The CW's Farmer Wants a Wife in attempt to find a potential romantic partner among a group of 10 single city women.  Though he was attracted to several ladies on the show, his heart was eventually captured by Brooke Ward, a 22-year-old marketing representative from Dallas, Texas. And while the premise of the Farmer Wants a Wife certainly suggests the future direction of their relationship, a wedding date has not yet been set for Matt and his potential wife Brooke.

Following a few interviews here and there, Matt Neustadt and Brooke Ward, the woman who captured his heart on the reality dating series Farmer Wants a Wife, finally goes public as they appear together for a fundraising event.  If you want an update on the status of their relationship, you can ask them yourself today at the Big Kahuna Celebrity Bartender Challenge, which will be held at Side Pockets in St. Charles.

Matt Neustadt, a 29-year-old farmer from West Alton, Missouri, was the star of The CW's Farmer Wants a Wife, which is based on the British program of the same name.  The series, which premiered on April 30, followed Matt as he chose a potential romantic partner among a group of 10 single city women.  In the end of its eight-episode run, Matt chose Brooke Ward, a 22-year-old marketing representative from Dallas, Texas, over runner-up Christa Ackerman, a 21-year-old cocktail waitress from New York.

After the finale of Farmer Wants a Wife, media outlets have mostly focused its attention to Missouri farmer Matt Neustadt and Dallas native Brooke Ward, who won the reality dating series.  Now, we focus our attention to Christa Ackerman, the runner-up who went home with a broken heart.

"I had an absolute blast with you ... and I feel terrible.  I feel a stronger bond with Brooke.  I'll never forget you," Matt Neustadt told Christa Ackerman at the time.