Tamara has a controlling husband so she over compensates controlling everyone when she is away from her husband. She has absolutely no class in social situations when she's away from her husband.

it's so sad, but I find this tv show so...diverting. i love the irony that Tamra judges Gretchen for drinking, lack of good judgement, and other "untoward behavior", forgetting that we have seen Tamra do and say all of the same things...unapologetically...louder, prouder, and around her children.

I agree OCWanabe....can we say Tamara is soooo jealous. It's good to see Gretchen finally tell her something back. Why is it Tamara's business and if she's not Gretchen's friend than why does she care so much what Gretchen is doing or not doing.

ok so did Tamra get a face lift??? Tamra is absolutley JELOUS!! Her and Vickey are acting too hoity toity.

Tamara is so worried about everyone on the show she needs to stop all of this fighting and work on her marriage or she is going to lose her husband

WOW...seriously how nasty has Tamra become?? what a witch or a b**ch!

Tamra you are TRASH with no class. Why has your husband kept you around? You are a jealous, insecure and Pathetic drunk mom, and yoru son is gross! What a loser the two of you are. I hope your husband kicks you to the curb!

I think Tamera in season 1 was trowing a MEAN curveball when she was trying to get Gretchen drunk...Well as the saying goes " what you wish for can come back and bite you in the ass" looks like in Tamera's life is True, when she looses her son, has big money problems and Simon has had enough.

JEALOUSY,JEALOUSY and more JEALOUSY!!! Tamra and Vicki are both so incredibly jealous of anyone and everyone who is better looking and better liked. That's why they have become such "close friends". They feed off of each others negativity. It doesn't matter what Gretchen does. They are going to try to find a way to make her look bad. Tamra has chosen to be Vicki's friend because Vicki is no threat in the "looks" department. Vicki is Tamra's friend because Tamra is readily available to feed Vicki's neediness. If Vicki didn't have $$$ to constantly be working on her appearance, we would all see the true Vicki. Mousy brown hair, chipmunk cheeks and HUGE ASS. I know that sounds mean but, she has no problem cutting on everyone else. She wants everyone to think she has the most and is the best. However, the more she shows her true colors, the less we want to see or hear of her. She needs to take a good look at herself before she judges anyone else. I guess since

you are so right hanover and zabrina good to know i'm not the only one that see's though them BI--HES