Bethy, my name is Belinda Chabes & I just want to say that I love you for being the woman that you are, you have not only shown your love & dedication to your husband ( Duane " DOG ") but you have shown the woman of AMERICA that you can be a wife, mother & best friend to your family...I too have followed you since your very first episode & just want you to know that. I know that you truly love Duane and you have no explanation to anyone who feels different. I too am a mother & Stepmother just as you are & I too can honestly say that my family comes first as well...thank you so much for being the real woman that you are and may God Bless you, Duane & your family..Incase you don't hear it as much as you should, I just want to say, keep being you because if you touched my heart no telling how many others you've touch and changed..May God continue to Bless You so that you can continue to touch others. Much love to you Bethy, my only wish is to meet you one day. Stay Blessed in being you